Season of life

 It is sad how life can change so drastically in the blink of an eye. That one moment you are happily married and taking care of your spouse for a month after heart surgery then on the most amazing vacation for 17 days and a week later they just up and leave you! Then they tell you that they love you, telling you they plan all these things and looking forward to the future but then you discover their dirty secrets and double life! Cheating and paying for acts to be performed. It truly is devastating but then to have a lump on your breast and have to under go scans, biopsies and removal it is all beyond me that I had to fight that battle alone with the help of my 17 year old at the time now 18. I truly can’t express to everyone out there how important health is and also checking up on your marriage. If something feels off dig, check into it cause I trusted my man beyond what he deserved and ended up being married to a pathological liar who emptied his 401, has multiple accounts checking, savings, and credit cards I never knew about. Then filing for divorce, he walked out and left me never came home, texted me he wanted a divorce but then told me he was sorry a week later when I found out about the cheating only to have him not even give our 30 years and 27 married a chance. I had to file and didn’t want to at the time but then he won’t even give me what the law says I am entitled to its heart breaking beyond words and something I never thought I would endure cause he always told me he would never leave me I was the love of his life. I believed him and that was my hugest mistake trusting and believing but I didn’t know monster was inside waiting to come out. A total stranger and no matter what no one deserves to ever have this happen to them, I will have more to share soon trying to go through all the emotions it’s been half a year almost now but I still have a hard time discussing or sharing. Protect yourself ladies prenups and